There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither bond nor free, there is neither male nor female: for ye are all one in Christ Jesus. Galatians 3:28

In my opinion, if you 'see yourself in the correct way' (as Alan Watts once put it) living how you should be should pretty much come natural.

Being totally honest, being a female makes me feel futile. For many reasons. (Some of them relating to how I've been raised. How my childhood has been. Female influences in my life. etc.) But really coming to grips with, fully realizing the true way Galatians 3:28 is meant to be taken, the mindset, (or realization) that I am one with my surroundings when  I'm surrounded by nature, or surrounded by people, (things of the sort, too,) has made me really completely look past genders. I hardly see genders anymore when I look at people, when it comes to judgment. When it comes to the actual soul, in my opinion, the sexes aren't a subject matter. They are nothing to be discussed.

What I'm getting at is it's only the physical body that possesses genders. No matter what you look like, feel like, guy or gal, etc.; that is not what defines you. Nothing defines you.

It's so important to just realize that and get on with your life.

"Basically, there is simply nothing to worry about, because you yourself are the eternal energy of the universe."
-Alan Watts

I brought up the topic of being a female just because it's something very personal. Something I've spent a lot of my time thinking about. Something that's really, to say the least, bummed me out, and I think it's a very good example of what I'm getting at.

"Things are as they are. Looking out into the universe at night, we make no comparisons between right and wrong, nor between well and badly arranged constellations."
-Alan Watts